What is Night Owls?

Night Owls is a curated community and events series focused on connection, creativity, and immersive experiences. We host thoughtfully designed gatherings that blend nightlife, conversation, performance, and play in consent-forward spaces.

What kind of events does Night Owls host?

Night Owls hosts a range of experiences including immersive dance and play parties, salons, workshops, murder mystery play parties, techno events, performance-based experiences, and community gatherings. Each event has a distinct theme and structure.

Is Night Owls s*x-positive?

Yes. Night Owls is a s*x-positive community that prioritizes consent, communication, and personal agency. S*x-positive means people are free to explore or not explore, without pressure, judgment, or expectation.

Are Night Owls events s*x parties?

Some Night Owls events include designated play spaces, while others are purely social, creative, or performance-based. Each event page clearly outlines what to expect so guests can make informed choices.

Do I need to participate in play or s*xual activities?

No. Participation is always optional. Many people attend Night Owls events to dance, socialize, observe, or enjoy the atmosphere. There is no expectation to engage beyond your comfort level.

How does consent work at Night Owls events?

Consent at Night Owls is affirmative, ongoing, and enthusiastic. Asking, listening, and respecting boundaries are core expectations. Consent can be withdrawn at any time for any reason.

Is Night Owls beginner-friendly?

Yes. Many guests attend their first s*x-positive or alternative nightlife experience at Night Owls. We encourage first-timers to read event descriptions carefully, arrive curious, and go at their own pace.

Is there a dress code?

Most Night Owls events have a dress code tied to the theme. Dress codes are about setting tone and energy, not policing bodies. Specific guidance is always included on the event page.

Do I need to be in a relationship to attend?

No. Night Owls welcomes singles, couples, polycules, and people of all relationship structures. You can attend solo or with others.

Is Night Owls LGBTQ+ friendly?

Yes. Night Owls is inclusive of all genders, s*xual orientations, and relationship styles. We aim to create spaces that are welcoming, affirming, and respectful.

Are Night Owls events private or public?

Events are ticketed and intentionally curated. Some experiences are open to the public, while others are members-only or application-based.

What is Night Owls membership?

Some events are open to everyone. Membership is required for play parties, s*xual workshops, and select socials.

How do I apply for membership?

You can apply through the Membership Application page on the Night Owls website. Applications are reviewed to ensure safety, values alignment, and community care.

Is photography allowed at events?

Photography policies vary by event. When photography is permitted, consent and privacy are prioritized. Guests are never required to be photographed.

How does Night Owls protect privacy?

Night Owls takes privacy seriously. We do not publicly share guest identities, and personal information is handled with care. Full details are outlined in our Privacy Policy.

Where are Night Owls events held?

Most Night Owls events take place in New York City, with locations disclosed after ticket purchase or closer to the event date, depending on the experience.

How can I stay informed about upcoming events?

You can subscribe to the Night Owls mailing list for early access, announcements, and updates. Members receive additional notifications.