Off Menu | A Night Owls Dinner & Conversation Series

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🗓️ Multiple dates in 2026

⌚️ 7 PM - late

🗺️ NYC, address shared with approved members before the event

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Off Menu is a dinner and conversation series for curious minds and adventurous palates.

Off Menu is a dinner series for the delightfully curious.

Each evening is set in a beautiful private NYC loft and features a tasting menu prepared by a private chef, paired with a guided talk, performance, or demonstration centered on a specific theme. Select evenings feature keynote speakers exploring topics around attraction, intimacy, relationships, and the psychology of human connection.

Upcoming topics include “The Art of Attraction”, “The Appeal of Surrender”, “Fashion, Skin, and Suggestion”, “S*x Myths We All Believe”, and more.

After dinner, the music rises and the lights dim. The evening continues with an optional after-hours experience with space to mingle, dance, or play.

Attendance is for Night Owls members only and limited to no more than 20 guests at dinner and no more than 20 additional guests after dinner. Discretion and consent are foundational.

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Off Menu is built for people who find great conversation genuinely attractive.

Each evening begins with a provocative idea introduced by a keynote speaker, setting the tone for thoughtful discussion around attraction, relationships, psychology, and human behavior. The small dinner table format encourages real dialogue rather than surface-level small talk, drawing a room full of curious people who enjoy asking better questions and exploring interesting perspectives.

By the time dinner ends and the evening shifts into cocktails, music, and after-hours socializing, the room is already buzzing with connection.

Off Menu creates a rare environment where ideas, curiosity, and chemistry can unfold in the same room.

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Volunteer
If you’d like to attend and volunteer for a comped ticket, please email hello@nightowlsmeet.com as we have volunteer tickets available.

Members Only
This is a play party only accessible to Night Owls members. Please head to nightowlsmeet.com/join to apply. This process will help us ensure an environment that's both s*xy and safe.

Age Restriction
All Night Owls experiences are for ages 21+ only

Consent
This is an ASK FIRST event; the rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. Please read our consent policy: nightowlsmeet.com/consent

Terms
By RSVP'ing to this event, you acknowledge that you have read and agree to the Night Owls Terms of Service and Code of Conduct

FAQ

✨ I can no longer attend. Can I get a refund? Tickets are strictly non-refundable and non-transferable.

✨ I’m not a member, can I buy a ticket? For this event, no. For members-only events, you will need to supply the email address associated with your membership as part of the ticket-buying process. You can apply for free membership here: nightowlsmeet.com/join

✨ When can I know the address of the venue? The address of the venue will be sent to approved and confirmed guests during the week before the event. Make sure to monitor your spam folder just in case!

✨ What do I need to bring to get in? Entry is only possible with your payment confirmation and photo ID. This will be cross-checked with our membership list. If there isn't a photographic match, there will be no entry. Entry is always at the management’s discretion.

✨ Do I have to dress up? In short, yes. Night Owls parties have a strict dress code that must be adhered to. The venue has a free coat check. You are welcome to come in regular clothes and change at the venue. Guests who do not adhere to the dress code will be refused entry with no refund.

Get in touch: hello@nightowlsmeet.com

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