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Kick off your next adventure
Want to join a curated community of fun, like-minded, and intelligent people? Night Owls is a s*x positive community offering a range of events from informative talks to fun parties, perfect for seasoned adventurers and curious newcomers alike.
Most of our events take place in our private space in the heart of New York City!
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Play Parties
Playhouse: Erotes
February 28, 2026
Lower Manhattan
Lights Out: A Techno Play Party
March 14, 2026
Bushwick, BK
Neon Jungle
March 28, 2026
Lower Manhattan
Beverly Thrills: A Murder Mystery Play Party
April 18, 2026
Lower Manhattan
Workshops
Touch to Tingle: Partnered Erotic Massage Workshop & Play Party
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Night Owls Boudoir
Ongoing
NYC
Socials
Erotic Improv
2026
NYC
The Empowerment Salon Women/Femmes Only
2026
NYC
Upcoming socials include more pool parties, bathhouses, more with our friends at House of Yes & Xanadu Roller Arts, and other fun surprises! Night Owls regularly gather to attend fun events. Join now, head to our Instagram, or DM a host!
Night Owls Boudoir is a limited-availability, carefully curated experience rooted in consent, connection, and creative expression.
Bookings made in February include a Special Edition Night Owls Valentine’s Gift Set! The set is curated exclusively for this experience with sensual, playful, and intimate items designed to extend the experience beyond the camera.
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Enter Playhouse
Inspired by the wild underground cabarets of Paris, the vaudeville tease of the 1920s, and the hedonistic energy of late-night speakeasies, Playhouse is a series of risqué, uninhibited evenings where the boundaries between audience and performer blur.
🤍 Enter Playhouse: Erotes, where desire multiplies, longing deepens, and pleasure takes many forms.
Inspired by the Erotes, the ancient Greek deities of love and desire, Playhouse: Erotes brings three forces to life:
Eros, the spark of attraction and erotic ignition.
Himeros, the heat of uncontrollable lust and urgency.
Pothos, the ache of longing for what is just out of reach.
Together, they represent desire in motion... the glance, the pull, the chase, the surrender.
✨ IN COLLABORATION WITH HIT ME UP!
We’re thrilled to run this edition of Playhouse in collaboration with Hit Me Up, bringing together members of both communities in Hit Me Up’s stunning two-floor venue in Lower Manhattan.
Step inside…
Immersive performances and sensual rituals inspired by attraction, hunger, pursuit, and longing. Unfolding throughout the night, some slow and sculptural, others charged and indulgent, all designed to draw you deeper into the experience
7,000 sq. ft. of multi-sensory space with interactive experiences and multiple rooms to explore
Spacious lounge area perfect for relaxing, observing, and lingering
Themed rooms and curated play furniture designed to bring desire into form
Dedicated play zones stocked with k*nk stations and safe supplies
Full bar and DJ setup to keep the energy lush and flowing
Pro sound and lighting to elevate bodies, movement, and performance
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Playhouse: Hex Appeal
Playhouse: Hex Appeal conjured a night of ritual, seduction, and spellwork in motion. Inspired by midnight forests, primal covens, and the haunting whispers of the occult, Playhouse: Hex Appeal was a night where power, seduction, and darkness entwined. Hosted in partnership with Hit Me Up, the evening unfolded across 7,000 sq. ft. of immersive experiences, themed rooms, and intimate corners designed for deeper exploration.
October 17, 2025
Playhouse: Masquerade
Playhouse: Masquerade deepened the ritual, inviting guests and performers alike to step behind the mask. Cloaked in secrecy and seduction, the night unfolded through aerial artistry, rope, chains, immersive audience scenes, and shadowed encounters that pulsed through the space.
June 21, 2025
Playhouse
The first Playhouse show marked the beginning of an immersive showcase where performance, seduction, and participation merged. Blending burlesque, rope suspension, acrobatics, erotic poetry, and audience-led scenes, the evening unfolded throughout the two-floor space.
April 5, 2025
Join us as a Brooklyn loft transforms into a shadowy playground. Pulsing techno. Corners meant for connection. Spaces where dancing melts into intimacy.
Following the betrayals of Murder at the Disco in 1970s Vegas and the sun-soaked scandal of 1980s Miami Vices, the story continues west. Beverly Thrills drops us into 1990s Los Angeles, a world of gated mansions, velvet ropes, tabloid fame, and secrets worth killing for. In this city, everyone’s playing a role, and someone won’t survive the final act.
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The lights were hot, the stakes were higher, and the disco ball didn’t stop spinning during Murder at the Disco when Delilah Rose took her final bow. On a glitter-soaked night in 1970s Vegas, suspects danced, flirted, and lied their way through The Boogie Room as secrets surfaced and alibis unraveled.
Dark lights, top-shelf temptation, and one fatal cocktail 🍸 Miami Vices kept everyone guessing until the very last beat. Secrets spilled, alliances cracked… and everyone went home with a story.
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Expand your s*xual toolbox
Night Owls workshops offer a space to slow down, learn, and explore connection with intention. Designed for curious adults, these guided experiences focus on communication, embodiment, intimacy, and presence. Whether you’re deepening an existing practice or simply exploring new ways of relating, our workshops invite thoughtful engagement in an environment grounded in consent, care, and curiosity.
Touch to Tingle is one of our most highly sought-after workshops. More dates will be released shortly.
Pre-register for early release tickets!
Join us for a hands-on workshop designed to awaken your senses, deepen your connection, and explore the erotic potential of touch. Whether you're looking to build trust, turn up the heat, or simply learn how to give (and receive) better pleasure – this evening blends the art of massage with the power of desire.
Part 1 - Guided erotic massage workshop where each partner will be guided step-by-step through a series of techniques.
Part 2 - The lights dim, the music turns low, and the play areas open up for consensual exploration.
The last 4 editions have sold out!
Explore past experiences
Based in New York City, Night Owls creates immersive nightlife experiences centered on connection, creativity, and exploration.
Whether you’re brand new or deepening your understanding, these resources are designed to help you navigate play party and nightlife experiences with confidence, awareness, and care.
Explore, Play, Intentionally
Gentle Guidance & Support Note
The information shared in these guides is intended for educational and reflective purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care. Everyone’s experiences, needs, and boundaries are unique.
If anything you encounter brings up strong emotions, discomfort, or confusion, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified mental health or healthcare professional. Asking for help is a meaningful act of self-care.
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